Tidy Tidbits: Reading Update & More

A NOVEL, A MYSTERY AND A MEMOIR

Carnegie’s Maid by Marie Benedict

Author Benedict (wesa.fm)

This historical novel is built around the premise that someone or some event must have triggered Andrew Carnegie’s transformation from merely a successful, rich, and somewhat ruthless businessman into the philanthropist and library founder he became.  Clara Kelley is poor and young and sent by her family from Ireland to the States in 1863 to find a job to help support her family back home.  She travels in steerage and upon disembarking, hears her name called, answers, and is swept up by a woman who places lady’s maids with wealthy clients.  Clara is not that Clara, but assumes her identiy and thus leads a double life pretending to be someone with experience. 

Fortunately, her father saw that his children were educated so Clara is not without knowledge or ability.  Serving as Andrew Carnegie’s mother’s maid in Pittsburgh, she becomes acquainted with both Carnegie sons, but especially Andrew, and listens in as he and his mother discuss their business affairs. The focus of the novel is Clara’s relationships with both Mrs. Carnegie and Andrew and how they play out over several years.  The action is limited and the scope somewhat slight, but I found it an enjoyable book. (~JWFarrington)

The Lost Man by Jane Harper

I have not yet read any of Harper’s other mysteries, but this one was gripping.  Set in the hot dry dangerous Australian outback, it’s the tale of three brothers, Nathan, Cameron, and Bub.   But Cameron is dead, his car abandoned, and his body found near an isolated grave. For someone born and raised in this forbidding landscape and who knows the risks of the extremely hot sun, it’s a mysterious ending.  The novel is related from Nathan’s perspective.  Nathan is a solitary sort who lives alone on the adjoining property (adjoining but distant by several hours) and stays away from town due to an earlier misfortune.  What binds Cameron’s wife and kids together and what secrets they and the brothers’ mother keep hidden are slowly revealed as Nathan seeks answers. (~JWFarrington)

The Salt Path by Raynor Winn

Moth and Ray (startribune.com)

In one fell swoop after a long lead-up, Ray and her husband Moth lose their home, their livelihood, and his good health.  Without any resources and children just beginning their own independent lives, they are truly homeless.  Avid hikers in their earlier years, they decide to walk the South West Coastal Path through Dorset and Cornwall, or at least the first half of it.  Armed with only the clothes on their back, rucksacks stuffed with a tent, cooking utensils, a copy of Beowulf, their remaining few pounds of cash, and not much else, they set out.  Ray is 50 and Moth several years older and recently diagnosed with a terminal disease.

This is Ray’s account of their journey, wild camping on cliff edges, enduring every kind of weather from blistering sun to driving rain, being hungry, and surviving many days on a diet of noodles and fudge bars.  From hopelessness to acceptance, it’s initially a slog which becomes a walk in nature lightened by a newfound appreciation of freedom and the wider world.  These are resilient individuals and I found myself rooting for them.  It’s Winn’s first book and she’s a good writer who captures nature’s beauty while relating their struggles with wry humor.  Near the end, I did tire a bit of the nature descriptions, one more cove, another cliff, but that’s just me.  (~JWFarrington)

BIG SCREEN

Late Night

Kaling and Thompson (bookandfilmglobe.com)

I would go see Emma Thompson in almost anything.  She’s one of my favorite actors and she’s marvelous in this new film as Katherine Newbury, the reigning host of a late night comedy show.  After 28 years, Newbury has gotten stale, but doesn’t realize it until that truth is forced upon her.  In an effort to diversify her all male staff of writers, she hires an inexperienced Indian woman, Molly, whose naivete and refreshing candor create waves in the studio.  As played by Mindy Kaling, Molly is a delight. There has not yet been a late night female TV host, and Thompson’s character illustrates the harsh realities of women trying to age with grace on the screen.  Funny, relevant, and entertaining.  I’d see it again!

EATING OUT

Roessler’s Restaurant

Tucked in off busy Route 41, Roessler’s is south of Sarasota in a former residence with lovely windows overlooking a pretty garden.  There are several small rooms at one end, one with a bar, and then a spacious dining room (actually the former swimming pool area) decorated in soft greens.  Adam, our waiter, was new to the staff, but helpful and professional.  They were still offering a Savor Sarasota menu so we and our friends took advantage of it. 

Two of us ordered the Roessler Chicken with mushrooms and artichokes while the other two had the veal and the bouillabaisse.  First courses included a choice of house or Caesar salads, soup, or a crispy lobster tail.  For dessert, we sampled the parfait and the nicely tart key lime pie.  The lobster and the veal each came with a slight up charge.  It was a most relaxed and pleasant meal and also a place to visit again!

Note: Text ©JWFarrington. Header book photo from runningoutofpages.com

Tidy Tidbits: Screen, Page & Plate

SMALL SCREEN

Shetland (Amazon Prime & BritBox)

DI Perez and his colleagues (bbcstudios.com.au)

We recently watched Seasons 5 and 6 of this Scottish detective series and it’s excellent.  One of the best of its kind!  Each season consists of six episodes and there is only one case that’s ongoing across the entire season.  More than most, this is a character-driven series, and Douglas Henshall as DI Jimmy Perez is superb.  He’s a compassionate man who is determined to find out who is responsible for any murders.  He knows the island residents very well and thus proceeds with a mix of delicacy and diplomacy combined with the drive to see that justice is done.  As viewers, you become acquainted with his colleagues Tosh and Sandy as well as with his now college age stepdaughter, Cassie, and with Duncan, her biological father and Jimmy’s co-parent.  Duncan is a particularly interesting character.  He means well, but is often hapless and unfocused and there is frequently tension between him and Jimmy.  But they both love Cassie and want to protect her.  If you haven’t discovered this series yet, try it and see how quickly you are addicted!

The Resident (Amazon Prime)

Nic, Conrad & Devon (hollywoodreporter.com)

This medical series from Fox is the opposite of Shetland.   It’s brash and bold, gory, and in your face.  Subtlety is not in resident Conrad Hawkins’ vocabulary nor that of Randolph Bell, the egotistical chief of surgery.  Add in the arrogant, talented surgeon Mina Okafor, newbie intern Devon Pravesh, and capable nurse practitioner Nic Niven, and you’ve got a larger than life cast of characters at the fictional Chastain Memorial Hospital in Atlanta. The surgeries are full of blood and guts, the medical crises all too frequent, and the pace mind-bending.  I watch it on the treadmill and it keeps me treading past my allotted time.  

READING PLATFORMS

I read books in paper and on my Kindle Paperwhite .  I bought my first Kindle in 2009 before we went to Madagascar for three weeks.  Smart packing and minimum weight were key, and I knew I would need some reading material for that long a trip.  I still prefer reading on paper, but for titles I have no desire to keep forever, e-books are an advantage.  

I have a card for our local public library, but being acquisitive when it comes to books, I procrastinated a long time before getting it.  Not a good advertisement for a retired librarian!  Recently, I decided I should really investigate borrowing e-books instead of buying all of them.  Turns out it was easier to do than I anticipated.  

Our library’s selection of e-books is somewhat limited, but I made the maximum number of recommendations for purchase and put holds on a few titles.  In the library’s defense, some of my recommended titles they have in hardback.  I was both surprised and pleased when over the past few days, three of my holds were honored.  I have read one novel, returned the nonfiction book which I found preachy, and am in the middle of an excellent mystery.  Success!  What format do you prefer for your leisure reading?

ITALIAN MYSTERY

Shadows on the Lake by Giovanni Cocco and Amneris Magella

This is the first mystery by this Italian husband-wife team and it’s a perfect summer read.  Set in the Italian Lake District around Lake Como, it features Stefania Valenti, a divorced mother with an 11-year old daughter who’s also a detective.  When human remains are found near an old villa owned by a prominent family and adjacent to a construction site for a new tunnel, she must investigate.  Valenti is an intriguing character and the best developed one. She’s a chain smoker, and like many Italians, is always up for a coffee and a pastry.  Focused on her job, she occasionally runs late in picking up daughter Camilla, who is remarkably understanding.  Her two lieutenants, Lucchesi and Piras, are less well drawn and almost indistinguishable one from the other. How the investigation plays out and its links to WWII make for an engaging story, but not a suspenseful one. The authors spend almost as much time describing the beautiful scenery as they do on the mystery.  Given everything, I will likely read the next installment when it becomes available in English. (~JWFarrington)

DINING IN SARASOTA

Selva Grill

We walked past this Sarasota restaurant many times, but it took a date with a friend to get us inside. Although the season is over, the dining room was full on this Saturday night.  The cuisine is Peruvian and the menu includes a long list of ceviches as well as other small plates and some tasty-sounding entrees.  Entrée prices are higher than some other local restaurants, but there is so much choice, you don’t have to spend a lot.  Among the three of us, we ordered the Spanish Caesar salad (a stacked version with manchego instead of Parmesan), shrimp and corn soup, beef and spinach empanadas, salmon, and their fish and chips special.  Most everything was very good, and we look forward to a return visit for either a ceviche or the mouth-watering beef our table neighbors had.  

Note: Text and header photo ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved).

Tidy Tidbits: Relationships

It seems appropriate on this Father’s Day to talk about relationships. Both the novel by Anne Tyler and Lori Gottlieb’s book about therapy say something about parent-child relationships, our most important first relationships. I’ve also included some snippets about my own father whom I still miss after forty plus years.

READING UPDATE

Clock Dance by Anne Tyler

I set this book aside last year.  The reviews were mixed, and I wasn’t in the mood for Baltimore.  I didn’t want to be disappointed in this novel, but even though I finished it, I was.  Willa Drake, a child of the late 60’s, drops out of college to get married and gives up her goals to marry the somewhat controlling Derek.  When he dies and leaves her a young widow, she has two sons to raise and along the way acquires a second husband, Peter, about whose background we learn little.  When a neighbor of her son’s girlfriend in Baltimore (Willa now lives in Phoenix) calls and asks her help in taking care of an 11-year old girl since the former girlfriend is in the hospital, Willa accepts.  The assorted neighbors are a motley crew of typical Anne Tyler folks with eccentricities and Willa gets to know them all.  One might say that Willa gains perspective on herself and her life through her time back east, but I didn’t find her a particularly compelling character or that she underwent much of a transformation.  And I wasn’t fond of the neighborhood cast of characters which perhaps some readers might find more lovable than I did.  (~JWFarrington)

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb

Psychotherapist Gottlieb’s book is fascinating.  Whether you’ve ever seen a therapist, are sure you’re not a candidate for therapy, or something in between, it’s worth your time.  Gottlieb is bold, frank, and occasionally funny as she relates her sessions with several patients over the course of a year or so.  They range in age from 40-year old TV producer John who thinks everyone else is an idiot,  Rita who’s approaching 70 and so unhappy she’s contemplating suicide, 25-year old Charlotte who has alcohol and attachment issues, and Julie, who in her early 30’s has terminal cancer.  As readers, you get to know these people and are able to eavesdrop on how Gottlieb supports them and prods them to overcome troublesome behaviors.  

But what is extraordinary about this book is the degree to which Gottlieb shares in detail her own sessions with Wendell, her therapist.  She’s been left by the man she was planning to marry and going to therapy helps her deal with the breakup and with other issues in her life.  She strips off the protective layers we all put on and reveals her own worries and concerns.  If I were to see a therapist, I’d want it to be Wendell.  While contemplating an appointment with him, this book is a delightful and thought-provoking journey through what makes us human.  (~JWFarrington) 

GLIMPSES OF DAD

My father was a family man with a broad smile and a sense of humor.  In the 60’s, he became known to us kids as “Daddy-O” and even signed letters and notes that way.   Not overtly gregarious, among friends and family he was both warm and kind. 

He liked the fruits of summer. I can see him returning home from one of the scattered local farm stands bearing the first strawberries of June and in July, ears of fresh corn. The strawberries would be hulled and sliced with a smidge of sugar and ready to top strawberry shortcake.  In our household, we served what I consider true shortcake—strawberries on my mother’s homemade biscuits.  None of those sweet patty shells for us.  As for the corn, it would be eaten on the cob, dripping with butter.

I’ve always thought Dad was ahead of his time.  I know my mother thought so too.  In an age when gender roles were more proscribed, he routinely dried the dinner dishes (pre-dishwasher age); was the weekend breakfast cook, think scrambled eggs and bacon or pancakes; and he made popcorn on the stove the old-fashioned way for Sunday suppers.  More importantly, he spent lots of time playing Flinch, cribbage, and board games with my sisters and me.  When my brother was old enough, they’d play catch in the backyard.  Other fathers seemed more focused on their work lives.  

In a family with four kids, parents have to spread their attention around, and often, the younger kids need it the most.  I was the oldest, but I had the advantage of alone time with my father when he drove us to Syracuse for my frequent orthodontist appointments.  The ride was about 45 minutes each way, so we had time for all sorts of conversation—-I relished having him to myself. 

My father was one of my biggest supporters.  I imagine my siblings felt similarly.  I got the impression he thought I could do anything I put my mind to and that was a powerful message.  He pushed me a bit, but in a good way, and once told me I was too soft, or as he phrased it, I needed to be “a bit more hard-bitten.”  It’s a comment I’ve never forgotten and like to think it served me well at the right moments.

Sadly, Dad died at 48 when I was just 25.  On this Father’s Day, I cherish these memories while simultaneously taking great joy in watching my son be a wonderful father to his own two daughters.

Note: Contents ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved).

Savoring the Sarasota Scene

MARVELOUS MUSIC

Sarasota has a rich and wide-ranging music scene, and some of the best musical performances all year occur during the Sarasota Music Festival, sponsored by the Sarasota Orchestra. This three-week series in June brings together music students, now called fellows, from conservatories across the country and pairs them with first class music professors and performers. 

Montrose Trio (montrosetrio.com)

 It’s a wonderful partnership that results in some great concerts.  This week at the Triple Crown concert, we had the pleasure of hearing three faculty as soloists along with the fellows, and they were all superb.  Ani Kavafian (Yale) on violin, Richard Svaboda (principal, Boston Symphony) on bassoon in a Vivaldi concerto, and Nathan Hughes (principal, Metropolitan Opera, and Juilliard) in Mozart’s oboe concerto.  But, the crowning piece in this very special concert was Mendelssohn’s Piano Trio No. 2 as presented by the Montrose Trio.  It was mesmerizing and the hall was silent.  The moment the last note was played the audience was on its feet.  

DINING LOCALLY

Durham in Bradenton

Good friends introduced us to the Central Café in old Bradenton.  It’s spacious and airy with lots of tables and a bar at the back.  Its laidback casual feel reminded us of Foster’s Market and the Ninth Street Bakery in Durham, North Carolina.  Although it was our waitress’ first day on the job, she readily went back to the kitchen to get answers to our menu questions.  Among the four of us, we enjoyed the pork chop special, a super lunchtime sandwich, ribs, and the pork tostada.  Add in a glass of beer or wine or even a cocktail and you’re set.   

SAVOR SARASOTA

Each June restaurants in Sarasota offer specially-priced three course lunch and/or dinner menus. This year around 100 restaurants are participating with a lunch menus for $16 and dinner $32.  Earlier this week we dined at two participating restaurants.  At CasAntica, where we have eaten before, we did order their Savor menu and it was excellent!  Several choices for each course and slightly smaller portions which we appreciated.  Especially tasty were the chicken piccata and the veal piccata and a luscious almond cake for dessert!

Umbrellas 1296

This was our first time eating at Umbrellas, the space where Roast used to be, but totally re-imagined.   We loved the décor—-blue walls, comfy blue chairs and banquettes, and attractive pillows. One of the wait staff told us that they were an inclusive place and welcomed everyone of every persuasion, hence the name.  Likewise, the menu is a broad one ranging from salads and small plates to entrees and featuring tacos, fish, a burger, roasted brussels sprouts, and chicken Parmesan.  They too had a Savor Sarasota menu and a pre-theater Opera menu (also 3 courses). 

Instead of either of those, we opted to share a Caesar salad (plenty for the two of us) and sampled the tasty sprouts, very good crab cake, and the chicken parm.  The latter had a nicely spiced tomato sauce, but the chicken had obviously been prepared ahead of time so was a bit dry.  It came on a generous mound of spaghetti.  Paul, the ebullient owner, was touring around the tables and we had an amusing chat with him.

The vibe is lively to loud, but we were there early during happy hour.  Many evenings they also have live music so I wouldn’t go planning on a quiet tete a tete.  We will return to try some other dishes.

SUMMER READING UPDATE

While I published a list of titles I’d like to read this summer in my last blog, I often add in books not on my initial list. Here is one from the list and one I picked up at Hudson News in Grand Central Station. Thanks to those of you who’ve already sent me some of your suggestions—I have added a few titles to my ever growing lists!

Save Me the Plums by Ruth Reichl

Ruth Reichl was editor of Gourmet for ten years before Conde Nast stunned readers and staff by pulling the plug on the magazine.  Restaurant critic for the New York Times and author of several memoirs, Reichl was surprised, and a bit terrified, about being approached to become Gourmet’s editor. She had never run a large organization nor supervised a big staff, but she took on the challenge.  In so doing, she expanded the boundaries of its coverage and re-shaped the magazine at an exciting time in the culinary world.  Reichl is a breezy writer and great company for an afternoon. She shares her doubts and worries, her concerns about neglecting her son when she travels, and highlights some of the egos and outsize personaltiies she interacts with along the way.  A fun read for foodies! (~JWFarrington)

Into the Raging Sea  by Rachel Slade

If you’re looking for a book that will completely absorb you for about 24 hours, this is it.  Slade has written a dramatic account of the last voyage of the American freighter, El Faro, which went down near San Salvador in 2015 on its weekly run to Puerto Rico.  Not only is this the story of that voyage, but it’s also an informative history of the shipping industry, how commercial ships today are regulated or not, along with testimony from the ship’s owners (TOTE) about the company’s restructuring. 

What makes this such a compelling read is that Slade spent time with family members of the 33 individuals on the ship, all of whom were lost.  She also presents the crew members’ actual words from the many hours of conversation transcribed from the ship’s “black box.”  There is an intimacy to her account that makes it both painful and poignant.  With references to Jacksonville, Florida, home to many of these mariners; Maine where some received their training; and Philadelphia where Sun Ship was based; this book should appeal to a wider audience beyond those attracted to the sea.  Slade is a journalist and writer based in Boston. (~JWFarrington)

Note: Text and Umbrellas photos ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved).