Re-Entry: Maine to Florida

LEAVING MAINE

Our last day in Maine we spent in Portland.  We had a lovely time at Petit Jacqueline over lunch of quiches and crepes with my cousin and his wife, re-visited the local independent bookstores, walked around Munjoy Hill, and then had dinner at Drifters Wife.

Foodies, and others, will know that this restaurant made the Top Ten Hot New Restaurants list as put forth by Bon Appetit.  Portland itself was named the food city of the year by the magazine.  I made our reservation before the top 10 list was final and my choices were 5:15 pm or 9:30.  Guess which one I picked?  Seriously, this wine shop (it’s still in the front of their space but set back so that I really didn’t see it until we were leaving) morphed and became a wine shop plus a wine bar with a small food menu.  

We both tried some different wines and the food was inventive and fun.  Beside their salami and very good sourdough bread with dulse butter, we sampled the corn and watermelon salad and the bacon, cabbage, and peach combo, followed by the half chicken served with greens.  For dessert (we broke our own rules about skipping this course) we tried the malabi, a Persian soft custard with blueberries that was delectable.  

Given their new fame, the place was jumping; there were couples standing and waiting for an available table while the two owners were back and forth seating folks and checking glassware at the bar (he seemed to always have towel in hand).  It’s all hard surfaces with nothing to muffle the sound, so it got louder the longer we were there.  Knowing that, it’s still a place I’d go to

if you are open to a different dining experience.

 

 

HOME AGAIN

We arrived home on Saturday night about 7:00 to an empty larder.  It being Labor Day weekend, we didn’t know if our favorite local restaurants would be crowded.  We arrived at Tide Tables about two minutes after they closed and went on to our favorite standby, Cortez Kitchen.  They were busy and THC, two guitarists with amplification, were playing and singing.  A happening place. 

Our favorite waitress smiled at us, we ordered coconut shrimp and the spicy shrimp roll to go with our wine, and prepared to wait for the food.  Initially, I was blasted by the sound of the music duo, but as I sipped the wine, I began to chill and get with the vibe.  This place is what we call our “biker bar” as it attracts a range of ages, lots of locals and some snow birds, but definitely those who arrive on their big wheel bikes.  In so many ways, it was the right place for re-entry into our Florida life.  Like Drifters Wife it was loud, but, other than that, so very different!

 

 

 

ON THE BIG SCREEN

Crazy Rich Asians

This is a perfect end of summer film.  A rom-com (romantic comedy for those not up to the latest slang), it’s fun, lovely, and has a happy ending.  I’ve made several visits to Singapore over the years, and having experienced the island’s culture and beauty, probably predisposed me to like the film.  Touting an all-Asian cast, it was the no.1 hit at the box office last week, out performing even Mission Impossible.  See it to be entertained, ignore or put up with the “catty girl” scenes, and settle in for a tropical delight.  Nothing too heavy, just enjoyable.

RECENT READING

#20    This Time Might Be Different by Elaine Ford

This book of short stories is by a Maine author.  While I haven’t yet read all of them I’m counting this as book #20 and the last one in my personal summer reading challenge.  With a subtitle of “Stories of Maine,” Ford matter-of-factly and succinctly presents the somewhat bleak lives of folks living in mostly rural poverty there.  Events more often happen to these people than being planned.  The stories perfectly capture that state’s physical landscape and are affecting to read.

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Maine Time: Mostly Granddaughters

GRANDDAUGHTER TIME 

Even since she could say, ‘”grandma,” our younger granddaughter F, now almost two and a half, has called both me and the Chief Penguin that name.  This visit, she finally got it right and for a few days, he was “GrandPA” and then became just Grandpa.  We are now differentiated and she always wants to know “Where’s Grandpa?” if he isn’t right there with us.  F’s language continued to explode over the five days here with more sentences, more new words, questions like what’s that, and statements such as “I’m hungry” or “water dancing” in reference to the slightly shifting water in the cove. She likes books and being read to, can happily play by herself with her baby doll—changing her and carrying on a steady conversation or singing to her—and is a great builder with blocks, magnetic tiles and even small Legos.  She almost always has a ready smile, is fearless and physically bold (too much so) but being two, also a bit stubborn and wanting to do things herself.

Her older sister, E, is six and excited about starting first grade. She is reading a lot, both simple books and shorter chapter books.  A current favorite is the Ivy and Bean series.  E is very creative and likes art projects that involve drawing and cutting out objects and paper dolls.  She and I made a paper doll family, mother, father, big sister and little sister, and then drew and cut out suitcases, beach towels, and food items for them to take on vacation.  Earlier we did all the trappings of a birthday party—birthday cake, cups of lemonade, and goodie bags as well as pizza, cupcakes and doughnuts for refreshments–using just paper, crayons, and tape.  I’m the least artistic of my sisters, and both of them who are more so, would enjoy these draw, cut and color exercises!

When not engaged in art or books, we all visited the local alpaca farm (a hit), spent several hours at the botanical garden in their children’s area (fabulous!), shopped at the bookstore, walked the footbridge and ate ice cream in town, collected rocks and shells on the rocky shore, and watched while the girls and their dad braved Maine’s cold waters in a small cove and then romped in a nearby swimming pool. 

Meals were mostly at home and planned (not seriously planned) to be rustled together quickly.  E. was a good helper at mealtime and loved what she called, “make your own lunch,” basically a buffet of choices on the kitchen island. It also re-appeared as make your own breakfast and even make your own dinner.  One can perform culinary “miracles” with frozen meatballs and jarred tomato basil sauce with some cheese ravioli on the side!

Grandchildren wake up early; fortunately, the C. P. and I are early to rise also.  The little feet came pattering downstairs by 6:00 am, if not before, and I could guarantee that there would be voices greeting me as soon as I emerged to see about breakfast.  Lively, fun, and a real treat to have them here!  I think we stored up lots of good memories.

 

READING UPDATE

#19 Bad Blood: Secrets and Lies in a Silicon Valley Startup by John Carreyrou

Smart and blond with big blue eyes and a manufactured husky voice, Elizabeth Holmes’ idea for a finger stick blood testing device intrigued her Stanford professor mentor.  Dropping out of college at 19, she founded her own company, modeled herself on Steve Jobs, and wielding charm and charisma, convinced a number of wealthy, older prominent men to invest in Theranos and join its board.  None of these board members (all seemed to be male) had any medical or scientific background and hence didn’t possess the knowledge to evaluate her product. A detailed account of how Holmes cajoled, lied and hoodwinked investors and company staff, it is unputdownable and reads like a novel!

Elizabeth and her number two, Sunny, who was also her boyfriend, ruled with an iron hand creating a very toxic work environment.   She frequently fired individuals who raised doubts or asked questions; he bullied and harassed the staff and was often the one carrying out the dismissals.  Security was extreme, there was no cross communication between departments, and Elizabeth was routinely misleading in presentations to possible vendors such as Walgreens and Safeway.  Not only was she marketing a device that gave false and misleading results to patients, she also deceived her board.

A sad case is that of George Schultz and his grandson Tyler.  Tyler briefly worked for Theranos and had issues about the device and the company which he shared with his grandfather.  His grandfather sided with Elizabeth and became estranged from Tyler. It took a long time, but ultimately, thanks to this author, a Wall Street Journal  reporter, who gained access to a number of brave individuals and then wrote the first articles for his newspaper, the truth was revealed.

 

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Maine Time: Antidotes

 

LIFE IN MAINE

Our time in Maine is beginning to wind down and two friends have already departed.  We, though, are happily anticipating the arrival of our son and family with our two granddaughters.  That means making blueberry pancakes with E’s assistance and at least one visit to the botanical garden where F will be quickly in the sandbox and entranced by the children’s play house.  E will delight in showing her around.

On the food front, Maine has been a glorious feast, partly because the Chief Penguin was inspired to bake, even though this kitchen’s batterie de cuisine is somewhat lacking.  Two steamed lobsters downed, five lobster rolls sampled, blueberry muffins and blueberry lemon cake made and shared, plus fresh corn on the cob, homemade corn muffins, and lovely juicy local tomatoes! Toss in a slice of pizza or two, linguine a la vongole (love those tiny clams), veal scaloppini at Ports of Italy, halibut and scallops at the Newagen Seaside Inn, and I know that the scale at home will tell me I’ve over indulged!  I wouldn’t have it any other way.  September will be a return to reality.

Food and grandchildren and even the cinema are antidotes to the corruption, sniping, nasty tweets, and name calling arrayed on the national stage.  What a disheartening, yet perhaps encouraging, pair of trial results unfolded this week! What will happen next?

HEARTWARMING DOCUMENTARY

Itzhak

This is a wonderful documentary about Itzhak Perlman’s early life and career up to the present day. As a child and teenager in Israel, young Perlman’s talent on the violin was admired, but set aside due to his polio disability.  Once he got proper recognition, opportunities opened up and he was launched on an international career with New York as his base.  Instrumental and influential in so many ways, his wife Toby shines through as partner, critic and delightfully articulate commentator on the power of music. She is the force behind their music school on Shelter Island and the annual Suncoast festival in Sarasota, where we’ve heard her speak.  Included in these 80 minutes are lovely clips of various performances, conversations with violin makers, as well as interactions with Alan Alda, President Obama, and Perlman’s extended family.  It is a warm portrait of two individuals who are full of passion for music and life.

POLITICAL BOOK

This memoir is pretty much old news, but fascinating nonetheless.

A Higher Loyalty:  Truth, Lies and Leadership by James Comey

Whatever you may think about Mr.Comey, former FBI director, and even if your opinion changed over the past year, his book is worth reading.  More than just an account of the investigation into Hillary Clinton’s e-mail and his decisions and  interactions with the current president (which are strange and unusual), it is a memoir.  He details his childhood and his early career with a combination of pride and ego mixed with humility and hindsight.  In describing his bosses along the way, he critiques their management styles and indicates what he learned from them and how he tried to be a different kind of leader. At times, he’s quite hard on himself and is able to state how another person might have had a different response and taken a different action.

I don’t know that even now I forgive him for his press conferences about the Clinton investigation, but I better understand his rationale and gained some insight into his work environment from information that I don’t think was public before this book. (~JWFarrington)

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Maine Time: Of Spies and Ghosts

In my view, summer is a time for excess.  Lots of lobster.  Indulging in more carbs and sweets, bingeing on television series, and reading beach books as well as serious literature.  This past week, the Chief Penguin and I devoted morning and evening hours to The Americans and Crownies while I also included an atmospheric historical novel (The Tea Planter’s Wife) midst my reading of Lincoln in the Bardo.

VIEWING

Legal Fix—Crownies (Acorn)

If like me, you became addicted to the Janet King series and you are a big fan of Marta Dusseldorp, then I can recommend the predecessor series, Crownies.

The Aussies like their slang (witness a recent article in the WSJ about the heated debated over “parma” versus “parmy” for chicken parmiagiana), and “crownies” are young lawyers working for the Department of Public Prosecutions in Sydney.  Janet King is a character here and there are other familiar faces, Richard, Erin, Lina, and Andy, plus Tony and Tracey, to name just a few.  Janet is more senior in rank and the others are getting their feet wet in preparing briefs and going up before the judges.

Filmed beginning in 2011, it’s looser and has a lot more sex than Janet King, but the cases it presents are serious and complex, making for intelligent and absorbing viewing.  Interestingly enough, some reviewers loved this series and found Janet King somewhat boring and tame.  Others felt just the reverse. I think, on balance, I prefer the greater seriousness of JK.  Crownies, with characters like Tatum who is always dressed more for partying at a nightclub than for work and acts it too, can be tediously sophomoric at times.

Sunken Garden in Wiscasset

Spies in DC—The Americans  (Spoiler alert)

While overall, I think there are more excellent British and Australian series than American ones, this series, The Americans, is simply brilliant! We just binge watched season 6, the final series and it’s so well done.

We get the unraveling of Elizabeth and Philip’s lives as spies, Stan’s curiosity and puzzlement changing to downright suspicion, Paige’s tutoring by her mother and Claudia coupled with her idealistic view of what they are working to accomplish—all set against a changing world.  The end of the Cold War is at hand, Gorbachev is coming to the U.S. for the summit and in 1987, the spy game is changing.

Philip is out of the business, mostly, trying to succeed as a businessman at their travel agency, his and Elizabeth’s relationship is strained and broken, Paige is allied with her mother, and Philip is the parent who pays attention to Henry away at school.  How it all ends, how Stan caves, how the Jenningses get away, and who stays behind as the family is fractured is compelling drama.

RECENT READING

#16  The Tea Planter’s Wife by Dinah Jefferies

A historical novel set on a tea plantation in Ceylon, Jefferies’ novel is lush and atmospheric and filled with mystery, love and lust.  It’s perfect for whiling away a rainy afternoon.  At just nineteen, Gwen goes out from London to Ceylon to join her new husband, thirty-seven year old Laurance Hooper, a widower she married after a whirlwind romance.  Attracted to the beauty and scents of this new world, Gwen has questions about her husband’s late first wife Caroline, is confused and uncomfortable with the shabby treatment of the native workers, and unhappy over the continuing presence of Laurance’s sister Verity in their home.

When she gives birth to twins, she faces a difficult decision and the resulting secret plus secrets from the past will haunt them all:  Gwen, Verity, Laurance, and her servant and almost friend Naveena.  (~JWFarrington)

#17 Lincoln in the Bardo by George Saunders

In my limited reading experience with several Man Booker Prize winners, I have found them to be some of the most offbeat and unusual novels and the most challenging to read. Saunders won the Man Booker Prize for this, his first novel, and it’s hard to find appropriately punchy adjectives to describe it, but I’ll start with weird, inventive, bizarre, strange, and haunting.  To gain the most from this work, it’s helpful to have a working definition of bardo. One can infer from the novel that it’s a state of being that is sort of between life as we know it and complete death. Or to quote from a recent article by Pema Rinpoche:

In bereavement, we come to appreciate at the deepest, most felt level exactly what it means to die while we are still alive. The Tibetan term bardo, or “intermediate state,” is not just a reference to the afterlife. It also refers more generally to these moments when gaps appear, interrupting the continuity that we otherwise project onto our lives. In American culture, we sometimes refer to this as having the rug pulled out from under us, or feeling ungrounded. These interruptions in our normal sense of certainty are what is being referred to by the term bardo. But to be precise, bardo refers to that state in which we have lost our old reality and it is no longer available to us.

Abraham Lincoln’s son Willie died at the age of eleven in 1862 and Lincoln visited the cemetery late at night.  In Saunders’ novel, the graveyard is populated by ghosts who interact with one another and who observe Willie’s burial and the visit by the president. These ghosts appear not to have gone fully over into death or at least they don’t fully realize that they are in fact dead.

The novel is structured like a Greek chorus with a series of voices in a continuous stream each spouting his or her lines and each speaker identified by name.  Interspersed with the fictional ghosts are snippets quoted from real historical works.  These excerpts add color, context and factual detail.  The ghosts run the gamut in their speech being coarse and ribald, argumentative, reflective, or even philosophical.  Together the lead threesome of Hans Vollman, Roger Bevins iii, and the Reverend Everly Thomas, collaborate to try to bring Lincoln together with his son one last time to provide him solace and to ease Willie’s transition to the next world.

This description makes the novel sound all very matter of fact, when it’s anything but that. Rather it’s a somewhat mesmerizing experience that caught this reader up in its momentum, so that while I found it initially off putting and weird, I also found it awesome and compelling.  It truly is a novel unlike any other I’ve ever read.  (~JWFarrington)

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