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Tidy Tidbits: Memoirs and Movies

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READING MEMOIRS

 As my regular readers know, I am fond of reading memoirs.  I am also fascinated by the dynamics within a marriage and intrigued by the nuances and tensions within romantic relationships in general.  Here are two new memoirs touching on these and other issues.

The Victorian and the Romantic:  A Memoir, a Love Story, and a Friendship across Time by Nell Stevens.

I included the full subtitle here because this little book is so much more than a memoir.  It’s an enchanting, frustrating, and somewhat curious account of this young academic’s struggle to find her place in the world and to fulfill what she views as her rightful female destiny.

Nell is in love with Max, an aspiring American writer, and employs all sorts of economies and part-time projects to fund trips from her home in London to his in Boston.  She even signs up for several research studies, including a sleep one that requires her to spend 14 days in a lab and be awake for 40 hours.  At the same time that she’s angling to visit Max, she’s grappling with the topic for her Ph.D. dissertation.   Eventually she settles on Elizabeth Gaskell and the several months Gaskell spent in Rome socializing with a group of noted writers and artists.

Elizabeth Gaskell (tattonpark.org.uk)

Although I occasionally had too much of Nell’s troubles, I found the sections on Gaskell in Rome and her relationship with Charles Eliot Norton delightful and creatively imagined.  As Stevens makes clear in her short introductory note, her memoir is based on true events, but is not truly accurate; so, reader, take heed and apply salt as seems appropriate!  One result is that I now want to read or re-read one or more of Gaskell’s novels.  (~JWFarrington)

 

Strange Paradise:  Portrait of a Marriage by Grace Schulman

What goes on inside a marriage is always something of a mystery to those outside it, no matter how close they are to the couple.  Poet Schulman came of age before careers for women and multiple roles as professor, wife and also mother were widely accepted.  She felt that her own mother had been compromised in her aspirations and her abilities in her marriage, and she, Grace, feared a loss of independence and freedom for herself.  Nonetheless, she and Jerry Schulman, a medical doctor and virology researcher, wed in 1959 and were mostly together for more than 50 years.  This is her account of their continuing love despite some years living apart and his long decline due to illness.  But it’s also about her friendships with other poets and writers and her years as poetry editor for The Nation and coordinator of literary programming at the 92nd Street Y.  As she writes, “the phrase, ‘happy marriage’ is a term of opposites, like ‘friendly fire’ or ‘famous poet.’  My marriage has been a feast of contradiction.”  Informed by her poetic sensibility, her book is both bracing and poignant.  (~JWFarrington)

 

WATCHING FILMS

In this new age of content available on iPads, smartphones and other screens, we rented these two films online and watched them on our own large screen TV.  Cheaper than the price of one movie ticket, and you can make your own popcorn!

(Image from imbd.com)

Three Identical Strangers   

How would you feel if you arrived at college for the first time and lots of students were greeting you warmly as if they knew you and then called you by another name?  For Bobby, this is a strange and unnerving experience, as he discovers he has not one, but two other brothers.  All three were adopted and each was raised by parents of a different socio-economic class.  What is the role played by heredity versus environment in one’s development, the old nature vs. nurture question, and why were these three boys separated at birth?  A film that starts out joyful unfolds to a more serious and somber set of issues.  A bit repetitive at points, but well worth seeing.

The Children Act

The Children Act by Ian McEwen is probably my favorite of his novels that I’ve read.  I was predisposed to like the film and, with Emma Thompson, a favorite actor, and Stanley Tucci, in the lead roles, how could it go wrong?  It’s a superb film and, with McEwen’s screenplay, the equal of the novel.  Judge Fiona Maye handles cases relating to children’s welfare.  She and husband Jack have hit a bad patch in their marriage which comes to a crisis just as Fi gets a difficult case involving a 17-year old young man.  He’s a Jehovah’s Witness, who needs a blood transfusion to treat his leukemia, but his parents are refusing it.  How this case plays out and its impact on Fiona and those around her is the crux of the film.  Thompson is wonderful in the role with the right combination of judicial dedication and exactitude mostly masking her inner feelings.  Definitely an Oscar-worthy performance!

Note:  Header image of Emma Thompson in The Children Act is from an article in the South China Morning Post.

The Literary Life

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TIMELY FILM—The Wife
I read Meg Wolitzer’s novel of the same name, but I think the film version of The Wife is better. Glenn Close gives a stellar performance as Joan Castleman, the dutiful, somewhat subservient wife of literary rockstar and new Nobelist, Joe Castleman. With just the slightest change in expression, Close portrays a whole range of suppressed emotions from anger to frustration, boredom, and puzzlement. Only once does she really erupt into a violent outburst and that is quickly transformed into the actions of a caring spouse.

As the couple proceeds through arriving in Stockholm and all the press and trappings leading up to the actual Nobel ceremony, it is clear that all is not hunky-dory in the marriage nor in their relationship with writer son David. Through flashbacks we see undergrad Joan, who has talent as a writer, and her mentor professor Joe and then the early years of their marriage. In Joan’s beginnings as a writer lies the crux of this too timely film. Also very well played is aspiring biographer Nathaniel who is like a pesky fly that keeps returning. Well worth seeing!

READING—THE LITERARY LIFE
A Life of My Own by Claire Tomalin
Before reading her memoir, I knew of Claire Tomalin primarily as a biographer as I’ve read hers of both Jane Austen and Thomas Hardy. Before she discovered her calling as a chronicler of other’s lives, Tomalin had a successful career as first a reader of manuscripts, a writer of book reviews, and then most significantly, as a literary editor at a number of notable publications including the Sunday Times.  

British by birth, her mother was a musician and composer and her father held posts with the United Nations and other NGOs. As a child, she was exposed to good literature, theater, and opera and in her youth and adulthood became acquainted with many of the literary luminaries of the time.  In short, her intellectual life was rich in culture.

Her personal life, however, had its challenges, particularly during the riotous 1960’s. Her first husband, Nick, was charismatic and an accomplished reporter, journalist and TV broadcaster, but also unreliable and regularly unfaithful.  Her youngest son was born with spina bifida and one of her daughters suffered from severe depression.  Left a widow with young children in the 70’s, she initially cobbled together a series of part-time jobs and kept on going with determination.

While Tomalin shares some thoughts about these tragic events, she is not the most revealing of memoirists. Her book at times reads like a diary of all the meetings, assignments, conferences, and lunches she took part in with a host of boldface names. Perhaps because I am interested in what goes into the business of book publishing and reviewing and the journals associated with it, I found these details mostly fascinating and, consequently, the book held my attention. Others might find this aspect tedious.

Nonetheless, Tomalin succeeds in portraying what it took for a woman of her generation (born in 1933) to carve out a rewarding career and, ultimately, to craft a happy second marriage. She is generous toward her friends, both old and new, and seldom spiteful. For another view, see the excellent one in the August 23 issue of the Wall St. Journal. (~JWFarrington)

OF LIBRARIES AND BOOKS
While visiting my Chapel Hill sister, we stopped by her local library, Chatham Community Library. What was interesting to me is that it is a hybrid library, a combination academic library for the community college and a library for the general public. It’s a new building and a very attractive one! I chuckled at some of the end-of-the-stacks posters and thought that the faux fireplaces were a nice touch.

 

We also paid a visit to one of our favorite bookstores in North Carolina and that’s McIntyre’s at Fearrington Village. As usual, I succumbed to a book for myself as well as a few for my granddaughters. Tired of browsing, the Chief Penguin and my brother-in-law made themselves comfortable on the bench outside.

Note:  All photos ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved).  Header photo is the interior of the Chatham Community Library.

My Summer Reading

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SUMMER READING ROUND-UP

 Following the lead of another blogger (The Book Stop), who got it from another blog, I set myself the personal challenge of reading 20 books between June 1 and Sept. 1.  In my June 3rd blog post, I listed ten of the twenty books I intended to read.  How did I do?  Overall I met my goal of twenty books and I read 8 of the 10 titles I listed in June.  The breakdown of genre is 14 novels (six were historical novels), three memoirs (two political ones), two nonfiction titles, and one book of short stories.

I liked most everything I read, but Westover’s memoir was amazing, Manhattan Beach fascinating, but a bit too long; Lincoln in the Bardo weird but so inventive; and Bad Blood, a sit-on-the-edge-of-your-seat tale of lies and hubris.  I also enjoyed the immigrants’ stories in The Leavers (timely), the political dramas shared so very differently by Comey and Dorey-Stein, and the spare and exquisite prose as represented by Strout, Egan, Halliday, and Ford.  Very hard to pick a favorite.

What was the best book you read this summer?  Or your personal favorite?  So much good literature and juicy political commentary available now.

Here’s the complete list.  Titles are linked to the blog post with my review.

  1. We Were the Lucky Ones by Georgia Hunter
  2. The Wife by Meg Wolitzer
  3. Anything is Possible by Elizabeth Strout
  4. Educated by Tara Westover
  5. Pachincho by Min Jin Lee
  6. Asymmetry by Lisa Halliday
  7. The Heart is a Shifting Sea by Elizabeth Flock
  8. Manhattan Beach by Jennifer Egan
  9. My Dear Hamilton by Stephanie Dray and Laura Kamoie
  10. Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng
  11. .Love and Ruin by Paula McLain
  12. From the Corner of the Oval by Beck Dorey-Stein
  13. The Leavers by Lisa Ko
  14. The Address by Fiona Davis
  15. Lilli de Jong by Janet Benton
  16. The Tea Planter’s Wife by Dinah Jeffries
  17. Lincoln in the Bardo by George Saunders
  18. A Higher Loyalty by James Comey
  19. Bad Blood by John Carreyrou
  20. This Time Might Be Different by Elaine Ford

Note:  Header image is from www.readersdigest.co.uk

Re-Entry: Maine to Florida

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LEAVING MAINE

Our last day in Maine we spent in Portland.  We had a lovely time at Petit Jacqueline over lunch of quiches and crepes with my cousin and his wife, re-visited the local independent bookstores, walked around Munjoy Hill, and then had dinner at Drifters Wife.

Foodies, and others, will know that this restaurant made the Top Ten Hot New Restaurants list as put forth by Bon Appetit.  Portland itself was named the food city of the year by the magazine.  I made our reservation before the top 10 list was final and my choices were 5:15 pm or 9:30.  Guess which one I picked?  Seriously, this wine shop (it’s still in the front of their space but set back so that I really didn’t see it until we were leaving) morphed and became a wine shop plus a wine bar with a small food menu.  

We both tried some different wines and the food was inventive and fun.  Beside their salami and very good sourdough bread with dulse butter, we sampled the corn and watermelon salad and the bacon, cabbage, and peach combo, followed by the half chicken served with greens.  For dessert (we broke our own rules about skipping this course) we tried the malabi, a Persian soft custard with blueberries that was delectable.  

Given their new fame, the place was jumping; there were couples standing and waiting for an available table while the two owners were back and forth seating folks and checking glassware at the bar (he seemed to always have towel in hand).  It’s all hard surfaces with nothing to muffle the sound, so it got louder the longer we were there.  Knowing that, it’s still a place I’d go to

if you are open to a different dining experience.

 

 

HOME AGAIN

We arrived home on Saturday night about 7:00 to an empty larder.  It being Labor Day weekend, we didn’t know if our favorite local restaurants would be crowded.  We arrived at Tide Tables about two minutes after they closed and went on to our favorite standby, Cortez Kitchen.  They were busy and THC, two guitarists with amplification, were playing and singing.  A happening place. 

Our favorite waitress smiled at us, we ordered coconut shrimp and the spicy shrimp roll to go with our wine, and prepared to wait for the food.  Initially, I was blasted by the sound of the music duo, but as I sipped the wine, I began to chill and get with the vibe.  This place is what we call our “biker bar” as it attracts a range of ages, lots of locals and some snow birds, but definitely those who arrive on their big wheel bikes.  In so many ways, it was the right place for re-entry into our Florida life.  Like Drifters Wife it was loud, but, other than that, so very different!

 

 

 

ON THE BIG SCREEN

Crazy Rich Asians

This is a perfect end of summer film.  A rom-com (romantic comedy for those not up to the latest slang), it’s fun, lovely, and has a happy ending.  I’ve made several visits to Singapore over the years, and having experienced the island’s culture and beauty, probably predisposed me to like the film.  Touting an all-Asian cast, it was the no.1 hit at the box office last week, out performing even Mission Impossible.  See it to be entertained, ignore or put up with the “catty girl” scenes, and settle in for a tropical delight.  Nothing too heavy, just enjoyable.

RECENT READING

#20    This Time Might Be Different by Elaine Ford

This book of short stories is by a Maine author.  While I haven’t yet read all of them I’m counting this as book #20 and the last one in my personal summer reading challenge.  With a subtitle of “Stories of Maine,” Ford matter-of-factly and succinctly presents the somewhat bleak lives of folks living in mostly rural poverty there.  Events more often happen to these people than being planned.  The stories perfectly capture that state’s physical landscape and are affecting to read.

Note:  All photos ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved)