Tidy Tidbits: Political & Personal

WATCHING: POLITICAL HISTORY

Argentina 1985 (Amazon Prime)

Prosecutor Staserra & his deputy

This political film is inspired by real events. It focuses on the groundbreaking 1985 civil trial of nine Argentine military leaders.  These individuals were charged with being responsible for the kidnappings, torture, and disappearance of hundreds of people during the country’s dictatorship period.  The main character is prosecutor Julio Stassera, a man who didn’t want the job and felt pressured into it and is also fearful.  It’s a gripping story of how Julio and his deputy and a team of young lawyers gathered accounts and assembled a group of individuals willing to testify in open court.  Recommended!

EXCAVATION: LIFE IN SCRAPBOOKS

Packrat Tendencies

I took a long trip down memory lane this past week.  I’ve made it my January project to sort, toss, and scan the contents of a closet.  This closet has essentially been untouched since we moved to Florida more than 8 years ago.  It was filled with stacked black plastic bins and one large cardboard carton. The large carton had not been opened since it was packed for a cross country move in 2007.  What I have discovered inside these boxes is a treasure trove of memorabilia going back to the 1960’s and earlier:  loose photos, scrapbooks, and photo albums. The pages in the oldest albums are fragile and crumble easily.

As a teen and through college, I was an inveterate saver and scrapbook keeper.  Every postcard I think I ever received or purchased from 1961 to about 1968, lots of programs for school plays, and concerts (Chad Mitchell Trio, for one), sports nights event lists, church choir festivals, birthday and graduation cards and selected correspondence.  To this day, I’m still a saver, but perhaps a more disciplined one.

Winter Wonders

I was reminded of the Christmas our family of six drove to Michigan with a stop in Ohio to visit cousins.  We had three Christmas celebrations, one with each set of grandparents and another with our cousins. We stayed in a motel one night each way. I saved postcards from the Tally Ho Motel in North Kingsville, Ohio (so cold a room we almost froze!) and from the Tiptop Motel in Canton, Ohio.  In Canton, we were all squeezed into the one available room.  My younger sister and brother shared a twin bed, one at each end.  The radiant heat (advertised on this postcard) was so hot, we departed at dawn’s crack.

Midst the many black and white photos were images of my siblings and me playing outside and running around with the neighbor boys (for a time, very few girls lived our street). Also black and white snow scenes of our driveway and yard after the Blizzard of ’66.  We lived in town and that was the only time I can ever remember getting three days off from school for the weather! 

I also discovered class photos and report cards from kindergarten through 4th grade from my elementary schools in Syracuse and Auburn.  I remember fondly my two favorite teachers, attractive young Miss Rosa (2ndgrade) and seeming-to-me very old, Miss Peterson (3rd grade).  Miss Peterson lives in memory for her teaching, but also for falling forward, fainting,and hitting her head on my desktop.  It was scary, but she was fine.

Scrapbook Maven

My mother had a special talent for creating noteworthy scrapbooks for anniversaries and other special occasions. I smiled and chuckled as I re-discovered these works.  The first one was for my Hancock grandparents’ 40th wedding anniversary in 1961.  It was done in the format of a magazine called ”Family Fortune” with an image of John Hancock on the cover. Contents included family photos, cartoons, and humorous anecdotes, plus letters from the grandchildren.  \

In 1972, for my other grandparents’ 50th anniversary, she designed a scrapbook as a yearbook in recognition of my grandfather’s long career at the University of Michigan. My siblings and I and our cousins contributed to both of these volumes. 

In later years, the Chief Penguin and I were the recipients of “International Cooking with Jean & Greg” on our 10th anniversary and then “Father and Son” (Dec. 1986) highlighting life with Tim.  Birthday scrapbooks followed for me (2001) and each of my siblings illustrating our individual life stories along with photos of our grandparents and great grandparents.  

Whether these volumes will be of interest to the next generations or not, they document lives well lived.  And thanks to the Chief Penguin, scanned copies will now live in the cloud. 

Note: Header image of scrapbook spread by JWFarrington (some rights reserved.)

Watching, Watching: Film, Stage, & TV

BEST PICTURE NOMINEES—Heartwarming and Otherworldly

CODA (Apple TV+)

Cast of CODA (imbd.com)

I hadn’t seen or read much about CODA until it won several awards from the Screen Actors Guild. I then noted it was also a Best Picture Oscar nominee which really brought it to my attention.  It’s a wonderful story, poignant and compelling.  Ruby, a high school senior, is the only hearing member of her family (mother, father, older brother).  She assists the two men in their fishing livelihood, the family’s means of support, and is the resident interpreter for their interactions with the outside world.  Ruby loves to sing, but at school, she is teased and bullied.  When she signs up for the school choir, she begins to find herself and to gain respect and positive regard from her classmates.  

This film is groundbreaking with three of the principals in the cast all being played by deaf actors.  One, Marlee Matlin as the mother Jackie Rossi is a familiar face, but the other two are not.  They are so expressive in their signing that they carry the film.  As Ruby, Emilia Jones embodies teenage angst coupled with loyalty and determination.  Her music teacher, Mr. V. (played by Eugenio Debez), is both demanding and supportive in the best way.  For those who don’t know (and I didn’t), CODA stands for Children of Deaf Adults.  The entire film has embedded captions.  Highly recommended! 

Dune (HBO Max + other sources)

Timothee Chalamet with other cast members (whathifi.com)

The Chief Penguin was more interested in seeing this film than I was.  I knew of Frank Herbert’s award-winning science fiction novel but had never read it.  Dune, the movie, is long (2.5 hours) and full of special effects including amazing spacecraft for interplanetary travel.  The plot is complex and involves several different worlds and a young man who is seen as the savior of his people.   

Suffice it to say that I didn’t love or hate the film and watched it to its end.  I would be surprised if it didn’t win Academy awards for sound or cinematography.  Recommended for sci fi fans.

BASKETBALL & POLITICS ON STAGE

The Great Leap by Lauren Yee at Asolo Repertory Theatre

Coaches flank Manford and his cousin Connie (sarasotamagazine.com)

The Chief Penguin and I just saw The Great Leap, and it’s my favorite Asolo production this season!  Ostensibly a story about a basketball game and a Chinese boy’s coming of age, it’s more significantly a political tale highlighting the contrast between free expression in America and constraints in China.  Set in 1971, coming out of the Cultural Revolution, and then in 1989, against the backdrop of Tiananmen Square, two coaches, one from San Francisco and the other from Beijing come together with their competing philosophies.  Each is determined to win this special game.   

The play is brash, funny, powerful, and thought-provoking.  Having visited China three times in the 1980’s, we watched the events of Tiananmen Square unfold on TV and worried for our Chinese friends there.

Standouts in this performance were Greg Watanabe as Wen Cheng, the Chinese coach, and Glenn Obrero in the role of Manford.  The play runs through April 2, so there’s still time to see it.

FOOD DRAMA

Delicious (Acorn)

Sam & Gina, chef Leo’s wives (radiotimes.com)

I read one mention of this Acorn series and decided to try it.  The setting is beautiful Cornwall and a luxury hotel and restaurant made famous by Leo Vincent, its chef.  It isn’t giving away too much to say that Leo dies early on, and his ex-wife and his widow are left to manage the enterprise.  Gina Benelli, his first wife, is a talented chef in her own right, while Sam, his second wife and widow, gave up her career when she married Leo and doubts her own considerable management abilities.  Add in Leo’s children: Teresa, Gina’s adult daughter, and Michael, Sam’s 18-year-old son, plus Leo’s mother Mimi, and you have conflicts of all sorts among these wildly different personalities.  

Most everyone lies or has a secret about something, and when these truths are revealed, sparks fly.  At its heart, Delicious is more about female friendship than heterosexual love (although there’s plenty of sex about). Some might find Gina and Sam’s clashes tiresome after a bit, but I watched all three seasons and stayed engaged.  The scenes of delicious food are mouthwatering, and Sheila Hancock as Mimi is both tart and loving.  Delicious is lighter fare with an occasional serious message.

Header graphic of couple watching TV courtesy of elements.envato.com

Tidy Tidbits: Inside Diversions

WATCHINGCOMEDY, ADVENTURE, CRIME

Don’t Look Up (Netflix)

DiCaprio stocking up for a special dinner. (thewrap.com)

Don’t Look Up is both a funny film and a sobering one.  When a comet is on the horizon that will destroy the earth, the hapless president dithers and does little.  The scientists who have plotted its course are ignored and ridiculed.  The film is both a spoof and a satire targeting politicians, egocentric celebrities, and huckster entrepreneurs hawking worthless devices.  But despite its comic moments, it is a doomsday story.  

There’s an all-star cast with Leonardo DiCaprio as the lead scientist, Meryl Streep marvelously inept as the U.S. president, and Mark Rylance almost unbelievable as the tech giant, along with Jennifer Lawrence and Cate Blanchett.  It’s definitely a change of pace from some other recent film offerings.

Around the World in 80 Days (PBS Masterpiece)

Phileas Fogg and his companions (hollywoodreporter.com)

I saw the original film of Jules Verne’s adventure tale when I was about 8 years old.  It was one of the first movies I saw in the theater and going to see it was special.  

This new version of Around the World in 80 Days has a more diverse cast with a young woman, Miss Fix, as the accompanying reporter, and a Black man playing Passepartout, Phileas Fogg’s so-called valet.  They are an oddly mismatched lot with diverging aims, but they end up depending on one another for their wellbeing as they encounter riots, marauders, and collapsed bridges.

We are about halfway through the series and enjoying it.  David Tennant with his serious mien and upright, almost stiff bearing, makes the perfect Phileas.  There are 8 episodes in all.

The Commander (Amazon Prime)

Commander Clare Blake (hollywoodsoapbox.com)

This British crime drama is older (set in early 2000’s) and the technical quality is not that great, but it is diverting and suspenseful entertainment.  The series was developed by Lynda La Plante, author of crime novels and creator of Prime Suspect. Each case unfolds over two episodes and there are four seasons in all.

Amanda Burton plays Clare Blake, a high-ranking female commander in London overseeing a group of detectives.  The cases, usually involving murder, are gruesome and challenging. As a woman, Clare faces disrespect and outright hostility from some of the male officers on her team.  She makes some foolish errors of judgement in the early cases but learns from them and becomes smarter. 

Fans of Downton Abbey will be surprised to see a younger Hugh Bonneville as James Lampton, convicted for murder, and just released from prison.  

READINGWOMEN’S RIGHTS

Leaving Coy’s Hill by Katherine A. Sherbrooke

Lucy Stone (bostonathenaeum.org)

When the first history of the 19th century women’s rights movement was written by some of the principals, Lucy Stone got short shrift.  Consequently, for some time her contributions were overlooked.  Thirty years after her death, her daughter wrote a biography and recently, several others have been published.

Katherine Sherbrooke’s novel, Leaving Coy’s Hill, employs the device of Stone looking back over her life and telling her story to a much younger colleague.  Lucy Stone grew up on a farm in Massachusetts, the daughter of a staunch abolitionist father.  Early on, she vowed never to wed and to devote herself to the anti-slavery cause.  Working as a teacher, she saved enough money to go to college at Oberlin, one of the few institutions open to women.  After college, she began traveling around the states giving speeches against slavery.  It was hard life of little pay, spare accommodations, and no companions.  But Stone was a gifted orator and driven to succeed.  

Fortuitously, she became friends with Elizabeth Stanton and Susan B. Anthony. Although their approaches differed, the three championed women’s rights—the right to vote and changes to the laws governing marriage and property.  Stanton was already married with many children when she became active, Anthony never married, and ultimately, Lucy Stone did.  

Sherbrooke’s novel details Stone’s career successes and imagines the conflicts and challenges she faced in her marriage to Henry Blackwell, brother of doctors Elizabeth and Emily.  

Lucy attempts to balance love and a child with demanding career objectives, still an issue today.  I thoroughly enjoyed this historical novel, and it fleshed out for me additional aspects of the women’s rights movement.  Recommended!  (~JWFarrington)

Tidy Tidbits: Motherhood on Page & Screen

READING

Hamnet by Maggie O’Farrell

O’Farrell (irishtimes.com)

In Hamnet, O’Farrell has created the world of William Shakespeare’s son, Hamnet, at the time of the bubonic plague.  While 11-year-old Hamnet is present in the early chapters, he haunts the remainder of the novel after his death.  In many ways, the novel is a story of motherhood, marriage, and grief with a focus on the mother.  Agnes, Hamnet’s mother, is a creature of the woods, a skilled herbalist, yet unconventional and socially inept.  She chafes under her mother-in-law’s strictures, misses her husband whom she sent to London to get him away from his abusive father, and mightily grieves for her son, seeking and seeing him everywhere.  

The descriptions of the environs are so graphic one can easily picture town life in Stratford and life on the farm where Agnes grew up.  O’Farrell lists, annotates, categorizes, and catalogs the implements of home life and the branches, leaves and blossoms in the wood; at times, the writing is staccato-like.  It’s a beautifully written book about a horrible pandemic—timely and richly deserving of its several literary awards.  Highly recommended! (~JWFarrington)

WATCHING

The Lost Daughter (Netflix)

Colman as Leda (polygon.com)

I am not familiar with the novel by Elena Ferrante that inspired The Lost Daughter, but I’m a big admirer of Oliva Colman and would see her in almost anything.  Here, she is a comparative literature professor on a beach vacation in Greece.  Leda is alone and prepared to work, but she becomes fixated on watching a young mother, Nina, and Elena, her little girl, romp and play on the shore.  Leda exchanges brief pleasantries with Nina and her aunt and interacts with Lyle, the apartment caretaker, and Will, an engaging college student.  In flashbacks, she begins reflecting on her own experiences decades ago as an ambitious academic with two young daughters and a busy husband.  As she said to Nina earlier, “motherhood is a crushing responsibility.”

When Nina’s daughter goes missing, the extended family and friends fan out to search for her.  Leda finds Elena with her doll.  What happens afterward is puzzling and strange with an even stranger, more mystifying ending.  I wondered whether Leda was truly unbalanced and what state we find her in in the last scene.  

It’s a slowly paced film with sparse dialogue, yet the camera lingers on the physical:  limbs, breasts, and bodies. Colman is superb as 48-year old Leda while Jessie Buckley is marvelous as Leda, the young mother. The depiction of motherhood is both joyous and wrenching with greater emphasis on the demands of being a mother.  Painful to watch at points, this may be film fare for a more selective audience. (~JWFarrington)

DINING 

Whitney’s

Located on the northern end of Longboat Key, Whitney’s is a former gas station turned into a casual restaurant.  Seating includes tables on the gravel outside as well as booths and tables inside.  Open for lunch and dinner on a first come, first-served basis, it’s a welcome addition to the LBK dining options. 

A friend and I ate at a small round table outside.  Our waitress was friendly in the nicest way, and we enjoyed shrimp Louie and the mixed greens salad with tiny cubes of manchego and a choice of dressing and protein.  I opted for the salad with champagne vinaigrette and grilled shrimp.  Both dishes were excellent.  Whitney’s also serves burgers, fish tacos, crab cakes, tuna tartare, and other fish entrees.  Wine and beer are also available.  Several days a week there is live music, so you might want to plan accordingly.  

Note: Header drawing of a harried mother is from Time Magazine (time.com).