Carolina Comments: Remembering & Reading

A SONG FOR THAT TIME AND OURS

Peter, Paul and Mary

It is not an understatement to say again that we live in interesting times.  We are about a week away from having the first convicted felon in the White House as president.  Much of the Los Angeles area is being decimated by catastrophic wildfires, and thousands of folks have evacuated from homes that may no longer exist.  Meanwhile, the Midwest and the East have been buffeted by snow and ice and a blast of arctic air reaching into the South.   Even snowfall south of the Mason-Dixon Line!

Peter, Paul and Mary (lmtonline.com)

Peter Yarrow, tenor in the folk trio, Peter, Paul and Mary, died this week at 86.  The group had many hits during the 1960’s and 70’s including Leaving on a Jet Plane and Puff the Magic Dragon, and I was a big fan. Probably their most memorable song and the one that resonates still is the lovely and haunting Blowin’ in the Wind.”  It was composed and recorded by Bob Dylan, but the trio’s recording quickly surpassed his in sales.  You can watch Peter, Paul & Mary sing “Blowin’ in the Wind” in this video from 1963.  Note the words and how the quest for freedom and justice for all remains a work in progress. 

In an interview from two years ago, Peter Yarrow relates that Harry Belafonte invited them to sing at the 1963 March on Washington where Martin Luther King delivered his “I Have a Dream” speech.  Yarrow eloquently expresses what their intent was in singing “Blowin’ in the Wind.”  It was not to entertain but to share something about the times they were living in—before the Civil Rights movement really took hold and before the anti-war (Vietnam War) movement.  R.I.P. Peter Yarrow. (Thanks to Dan Rather for providing the YouTube links in his weekly e-mail letter.)

RECENT READING

Parallel Lives

I Heard Her Call My Name: A Memoir of Transition by Lucy Sante

(wikipedia.com)

Author and Bard College professor Lucy Sante outwardly lived her life for 66 years as Luc Sante.  Inwardly, she led a parallel life as a woman.  When she saw herself pictured as she might look as a woman, she took the plunge and began revealing her “true” female identity to close friends and colleagues. 

Her memoir, I Heard Her Call My Name, is on several best books of the year lists.  Beautifully written, it is both sensitive and direct.  Sante doesn’t stint on the details and experiences of her teens and and through her 20’s.  She consciously performed and presented herself as male, married twice, and partook of drugs and alcohol while exploring and enjoying the bohemian music and arts scene in New York.  When she did transition, she was deeply committed in a long-term relationship with her female partner Eva.  She freely shares her fears and doubts along the way, while at the same time acknowledging how very right this transition was.

Although some readers will be unfamiliar with her literary and other references, her work is a compelling and revealing addition to the literature about gender transitions.  (~JWFarrington)

18th Century Midwife Extraordinaire

The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon

Ballard (thedailygardener.org)

Martha Ballard was a dedicated midwife living in Hallowell, Maine in the late 18th century.  She would not be known to us today were it not for the handwritten diary she kept.  She made almost daily entries about the weather, where she went, and the babies she was called out to deliver at any hour of the day or night.  As a midwife, she was one of the few, if not the only, woman who could be called on in court to testify to the details of an unmarried woman’s pregnancy and childbirth.  Scholar Laurel Thatcher Ulrich wrote a Pulitzer Prize winning biography of Martha called A Midwife’s Tale.  (I own that work but have not yet read it.)

This novel, Frozen River, is an intimate depiction of a marriage, of childbirth with all its attendant messiness, and of daily family life in wintry Maine when the Kennebec River is iced over.  It is also a murder mystery.  Rebecca Foster claims two men raped her.  When one of the supposed perpetrators is found dead in unusual circumstances, there are numerous court cases, and Martha Ballard and her diary play a role.  

When Ariel Lawhon learned about Martha Ballard, she was motivated to write this novel.  It is one of the best historical fiction works I’ve ever read.  As Lawhon makes clear in her Author’s Note, the events in the novel are inspired by rather than based on Ballard’s life.  She adjusted some dates, invented some situations, and presented Martha as what she thought she would be like as a person.  

I found it totally absorbing and an engaging multi-layered story about the role of women, seeking justice, and New England’s early court system.  Highly recommended!  (~JWFarrington)

READING: WHAT’S NEXT

These titles are on my list waiting to be read.  Watch for comments on them in future blog posts.

The Outcast Dead by Elly Griffiths (Book 6 in the crime series featuring English archaeologist Ruth Galloway)

Grief is for People by Sloane Crosley (a memoir about a close friend’s suicide)

The Wildes by Louis Bayard (historical novel about the family of Oscar Wilde)

Note: Header photo of winter in Wake County, early Jan. 2025, from wral.com.

Tidy Tidbits

MUSICAL TREAT

Chanticleer (Singers.com)

When we lived in San Francisco, we were fans of and Chanticleer subscribers.  We heard them perform in large and small venues and felt as if we got to know some of the singers a bit.  This men’s acapella choir tours around the U.S. and has even sung abroad.  It was delightful to hear them locally in their Christmas concert at the Sarasota Opera House.  None of the guys were familiar to us, but it was a wonderful evening of medieval songs, traditional English carols, and even a few popular tunes.  For a taste of their exquisite harmonies, here’s a link to a 2021 rendition of “I Wonder as I Wander.”

VIEWING

The Chief Penguin and I finished watching The Crown last week which, despite the opinion of critics, we thought was well presented.  And yes, we know it isn’t a documentary and the filmmaker has taken creative liberties with some scenes.  In the later episodes Charles, now king, is portrayed quite positively, while Imelda Staunton is a convincing Queen Elizabeth.  

Extraordinary Attorney Woo  (Netflix)

Attorney Woo in court (Study Breaks Magazine)

Thanks to my sister Sal, I am enjoying this legal series.  It’s a South Korean series about a high-functioning autistic young woman who is a newly hired lawyer at a prestigious firm.   Although she struggles with everyday tasks like walking through a revolving door, she has a superb memory and is a creative thinker.  Her portrayal is sensitively done, and one sees her colleagues gradually accepting her oddities and her abilities.   The cases and clients are challenging ones for the firm, and Woo’s insights are often key to a successful resolution.  

There are 16 episodes, each an hour long, and I’ve now watched three of them.  As a side note, I read that several years ago, the state of Florida hired its first autistic lawyer, also a woman.   

BOOK NOTE–MARGOT

I subscribe to BookBrowse, an online newsletter highlighting new publications.  There are reviews, author interviews, and suggested titles for book groups. Some content is free to anyone. As a subscriber, I have the occasional opportunity to request an ARC (Advance Reading Copy) with the understanding that I will either share my impression of the book in a short review or participate in an online discussion of the book by formulating and posting a series of questions.  I much prefer to do a brief review.  

I just finished reading and posting a review of a novel to be published in Jan. 2023. It’s entitled Margot by Wendell Steavenson.  I had mixed feelings about it as you will see if you read my First Impressions on the BookBrowse website at:  https://www.bookbrowse.com/reader_reviews/details/index.cfm/ref/rr50935

Holiday cheer in Winter Park, FL

Note: Header poinsettia photo and snowman ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved.)

Maine Potpourri: Books & Music

This week’s post features two novels I recently read. One is definitely summertime fare, an absorbing love story set in and near Philadelphia. The other is yet another World War II related historical novel, but from a slightly different perspective than the recent rash of female spy novels. I found that the momentum built the farther I got into it. Character development was a bit slow and with not as much depth as the author’s earlier novel, perhaps because a few more of these characters were real people.

And on a different note, the Chief Penguin and I went to a concert of Irish music performed by the female ensemble, Cherish the Ladies.

AMISH AND BIG CITY WORLDS COLLIDE

Between You & Me by Susan Wiggs

I’ve long been a fan of Susan Wiggs’ novels.  Some are historical novels such as her early Chicago Fire Trilogy; others are contemporary.  All deal with relationships, both romantic and familial.  Not her most recent book, but one I’d missed is Between You and Me.  Set in the greater Philadelphia area, it brings into focus the contrast in cultural milieus between a rich medical student destined to become a pediatric surgeon and an Amish farmer who is raising his orphaned niece and nephew in that faith community.  

Reese Powell is following the career track her successful physician parents have mapped out for her when she encounters Caleb Stoltz whose nephew Jonah has suffered a farming machinery accident.  Jonah loses his arm and has a long road to recovery and adjustment.  Despite their different and clashing worlds, Reese and Caleb are attracted to one another.  Yet each is bound by pledges they made to their families.  I found this an absorbing and fast-paced story that drew me in immediately.  

SAVING WWII REFUGEES

The Postmistress of Paris by Meg Waite Clayton

Author Clayton (en.wikipedia.org)

Several years ago, I read and enjoyed Meg Clayton’s earlier novel, The Last Train to London, also set during the Second World War.  This new one is built around German artist refugees and activists involved in secretly guiding them out of occupied France across the mountains into Spain or Portugal.  A dangerous business.  

The main character, heiress Nanee, is based on the real Mary Jane Gold from Chicago.  Nanee has a passion for adventure and joins the resistance delivering messages to refugees in hiding and spiriting others across the border.  She buys an old chateau on the outskirts of Paris to house herself and colleagues, including the real American journalist Varian Fry.  Photographer Edouard Moss, wanted by the Nazis, is reluctant to leave since he has been separated from his little girl.  The novel is a story of Nanee and Edouard’s love and the amazing bravery and courage of those who endured.

It moves slowly as the character of Edouard is introduced and then gains momentum as the resistance team becomes involved in a rescue mission from a French labor camp.  A sobering portrait of a time fraught with danger. 

IRISH MUSIC

The group with Joanie Madden in front (boothbayoperahouse.com)

It’s just a month since we returned home from Ireland and so, going to a concert of Irish music was both appropriate and appealing.  The Opera House at Boothbay Harbor presents a full season of musical events beginning in May and ending in December.  Their offerings range from folk music to jazz to Broadway tunes to blues and swing bands.  Several years ago, we attended a jazz concert in this historic hall.

This week, the offering was the Irish music ensemble, Cherish the Ladies.  This Grammy-winning group, led by an exuberant Joanie Madden on flute and whistle, has been performing together for 38 years.  On fiddle, accordion, guitar, and piano plus the whistle or flute, they performed traditional Irish tunes along with some original ones.  Interspersed in were two lively step dancers and several haunting County Clare melodies sung by Clare native, Kate Purcell.  

The music was lively and lilting and the evening great fun!  The group was supposed to be here for a Christmas program in December 2019.  Due to Covid, they got here this year instead.  The hall was packed and clearly, some in the crowd were big fans.  For a sample, here’s a YouTube link to “The Cat’s Meow Jig”, Joanie Madden’s first composition.

Note: Header photo is a Maine sunset off Southport Island ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved).

Tidy Tidbits: Music & Food

LIVE MUSIC

Sarah Hicks (datebook.sfchronicle.com)

Last week for the first time in two years, we attended a symphony concert.  It was such a joy to hear the music in person and not be glued to a small screen!  This was the Sarasota Orchestra’s Be Mine concert, part of their Great Escapes series.  Guest conductor Sarah Hicks was a lively and informative presence on the podium, and in honor of Valentine’s Day, the musical theme was love.  We heard Gershwin’s Overture from Girl Crazy, two selections from Carmen, and Mendelssohn’s Wedding March, along with several other works.  This was a short concert, just an hour, and perfect for the pre-dinner hour.  

ENGAGING DRAMA

The Gilded Age (HBO Max)

Marian & Peggy (smithsonianmag.com)

The reviews of Julian Fellowes’ latest series have been mixed. But, I like historical drama and am especially fond of the 19th century so, I decided to subscribe to HBO Max to see The Gilded Age.  It’s set in New York City in the 1880’s and is rife with snobbery, social climbing, and meanness, coupled with large fortunes.  Newcomers, albeit wealthy ones, are not well received unless blessed by the formidable Mrs. Astor. 

Young Marian Brook comes from Pennsylvania to live with her aunts, Agnes van Rhijn and Ada Brook, after the death of her father.  She has no resources of her own, and in her directness and naivete, questions and challenges the ways of society.  One fascinating aspect of this series is its inclusion of educated affluent Blacks.  They are exemplified in Peggy Scott and her parents.  Peggy befriends Marian and is hired as secretary to Aunt Agnes.  

Overall, it’s a darker drama than Downton Abbey.  Denee Benton as Peggy is very well played, and it is fun to watch Christine Baranski as the acerbic, dictatorial Aunt Agnes.  There are four episodes, and it’s already been renewed for a second season. I’m hooked!

LOCAL EATERY

Pesto

I’m slightly reluctant to blog about Pesto since this neighborhood restaurant has become very popular!  We dined there twice in the past two weeks, once with visiting family, and it’s now a favorite.   There are three dining areas (the one in the back has a bar) plus tables and heaters outside.   The food is Italian, and there’s a wide variety of pasta and meat selections.  

We enjoyed the veal and chicken Milanese preparations and their veal scaloppini and have sampled the shrimp-cargot and several of the salads.  The wine list is extensive, and several beers are also available.  Prices are moderate, portions are substantial, and the food is good! 

Note: Header photos of foursome dining out from istock.com.